My wife and I don't want kids. Ever. So I decided to get a vasectomy.

In this personal essay, the author reflects on his decision to get a vasectomy and the connections between his choice and feminism. He discusses the societal expectations placed on men to be fathers and how this can limit their choices and autonomy. The author also explores the intersection of feminism and reproductive rights, arguing that by taking responsibility for his own fertility, he is supporting women's liberation and challenging traditional gender roles. The essay delves into themes of pessimism, choice, and the complex relationship between personal decisions and larger social movements.