A.I. Is About to Solve Loneliness. That’s a Problem

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2025/07/21/ai-is-about-to-solve-loneliness-thats-a-problem
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A.I. Is About to Solve Loneliness. That’s a Problem

The article explores the potential of AI companions to alleviate loneliness, particularly for the isolated and elderly, while raising concerns about the long-term societal impact. The author argues that loneliness, though painful, is a crucial biological signal that drives human connection and personal growth. By using AI to eliminate this discomfort, society risks losing the motivation for developing real social skills, resilience, and genuine relationships, potentially leading to greater isolation and diminished humanity.

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the class of students suggesting advanced LLMs be treated like a medicine, restricting use as a companion to those who can get a prescription...

that definitely sets the stage for a fascinating debate.

the title though feels off, suggesting loneliness can (or should) be solved. and yet, the author then goes on to describe the value of solitude and boredom (of which neither are "solved" or should be, despite constant access to screens and information and LLMs).

nonetheless, some useful, if not recycled thoughts on loneliness, connection and adjusting to a new world of new tools that can possibly unbalance or re-balance those concepts for us.

Published

2025

Summary

The article explores the potential of AI companions to alleviate loneliness, particularly for the isolated and elderly, while raising concerns about the long-term societal impact. The author argues that loneliness, though painful, is a crucial biological signal that drives human connection and personal growth. By using AI to eliminate this discomfort, society risks losing the motivation for developing real social skills, resilience, and genuine relationships, potentially leading to greater isolation and diminished humanity.

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